Start Dating 2 women at once

Dating 2 women at once

Around the eighth month of my online dating experience, I gave up on my “sincere” method of meeting girls and intentionally tried to meet as many girls as possible at once.

When I first started online dating, I had this notion that dating more than one person simultaneously would somehow be insincere. There were times where I would end up talking to a few girls at once but this was always accidental.

With this approach, I went on one first-date every month, sometimes less.

On one occasion when things were going very poorly, instead of stressing out, I told my date I didn’t think we were a great match but that we could still have fun over dinner.

She seemed relieved and agreed to try to enjoy the dinner.

I would continue to date someone negative or rude or conceited and would just hope that things would just eventually “work themselves out”.

All this changed when my dating schedule became very active.

When I was relaxed, there was no “doing better” or “doing worse”. For the rest of us, the biggest part of find that special someone is opportunity.

To put it another way: imagine there is a room with 100 singles of the opposite sex in it and in this imaginary room there is one person who is a “match” to you.

All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.

First date failure, whether because she wasn’t what I was looking for or the reverse, was very difficult.

This freedom allowed me to finally be honest with myself about what I was looking for.