Start Dating someone while going through divorce

Dating someone while going through divorce

If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).

Q: I’ve been dating this person for months, and when I ask if we’re a serious couple or not, the subject gets changed or I get ignored altogether. One, they’re interested but not good at communicating or are feeling pressured and don’t like it.

If you emotionally vomit on someone and spill your whole life story during the first three dates, where’s the fun in that?

It’s like telling someone what’s in the present they’re about to unwrap. Focus on having fun, enjoy the mystery, and going from casual to serious will happen naturally.

If it’s “to get to know someone”, you’ll probably seem interview-ish. People like being around fun, low-pressure people with no expectations.

The best way to look at a date is a chance to have fun. As things progress, that’s when you get to know each other.

Holding off to avoid judgement is ridiculous – how can two people have sex at the same time but only one of them does it too soon?

Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.

If all goes well, you won’t have to do “the talk” of whether or not you’re a serious couple.