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Dating tips for christian men

Nowhere, however, does it say that God picked out a spunky brunette whom he's waiting to spring on you at the right moment. When it comes to God, I'm pretty careful about saying what he does or doesn't do.

There are plenty of them, but let's focus on what I believe are the top five myths that make dating harder for Christian men.

Myth #1: "God has one woman picked out for you to marry.

Whom you married wasn't even up to you most of the time.

I'm not saying that God doesn't have a will regarding your dating life.

Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.

God will tell them if a relationship is right, and God will end it if it's not.

German theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer addresses this issue in a wedding sermon he wrote for his sister from a Nazi jail cell.